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Day 206 - Lifeless in Mom's Arms & Peter Pan with Dad

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Saturday, July 24th, 2021 Updates: James vomited this morning twice around 8:45am and 9:20am. We have mylicon gas drops ordered now so they will be given Q6. James tolerated the LTV today for 7 hours during day shift and 7 hours during night shift. Mom was holding him in the chair and James started having a BPD episode, turned purple, and went lifeless in her arms. The Charge Nurse, Physician Assistant, and 2 RTs came in. No one knows why. His stats were good, his trach was in, and we couldn't find a disconnected tube. He was able to bring his color back. But oh man that was scary! Dad came at 4pm to relieve Mom. He read James Peter Pan. Dad also helped with the wipe down bath and trach tie change. James slept on his tummy for 6 hours.   P.S. You can email James your love and support as often as you’d like. Mom and Dad read these emails to James as they come in. We all love them! JamesWestonAbramowitz@gmail.com

Day 205 - Emergency Trach Out & Poor Choice of Words

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Friday, July 23rd, 2021 Updates: At 12:30pm, James had a massive diaper. All over his bed, filled up 3 diapers, and a onesie. 2nd bowel movement today. Mom talked to the Doctor to see if we can change the lactulose to just once a day so we will skip the evening dosage. Mom did his wipe down bath by herself. James did 7 hours on the LTV today for both day shift and night shift. Tomorrow we are getting a new doctor that we've never had before. We've asked the nurse to start doing mylicon gas drops again. 🚨 First emergency trach out situation! We were doing Trach ties and the RT was insistant on holding up the back of his head instead of him laying on a rolled towel. Mom asked several times if he could just lay him down, because that is the way she was trained to do it and is comfortable that way (more importantly it's safer). The RT let Mom know that the swaddle not working, James was getting out of it (this happens everytime we do trach care). Well we heard James make a ful...

Day 204 - More LTV Technical Issues & Introducing Lactose

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Thursday, July 22nd, 2021 Update/Changes: Removed all Prune Juice. Started Lactulose instead, 5mL twice a day. We were not seeing results from the prune juice and 30 mLs was a lot to be taking the place of breastmilk. Ended up doing a 2nd glycerin at 11:30am. James eventually had a bowel movement. PT stopped by to work with James and hung suction tubing across his crib to hang toys from. During rounds, it was discussed that the LTV trial last night was stopped due to James not tolerating it. Mom corrected them and letting them know that they were actually having difficulties and then they decided to bag him, so no James didn't have an issue with the LTV he had an issue with getting bagged. It gets pretty frustrating how many people try and cover their ass when they're talking with the doctor. 5 hours on the LTV during day shift/ night shift ENT came by to look at his new granuloma and she said it's fine. She recommended putting aquaphor on any skin in the back of the neck t...

Day 203 - Care Conference & Digging into IVF (ICSI)

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Wednesday, July 21st, 2021 This day last year James as a Blastocyst (180 cells) was transferred into Mom's uterus! There was a 49% chance that he would implant. He has defied all odds since the beginning and every step of the way! 💪 This is a picture of James as a Blastocyst. Not everyone has a baby picture this early! What's really crazy is that James was first created back in March 2019 when Mom had her aspiration surgery. That's when they retrieve the eggs to undergo Intracytoplasmic Sperm Injection (ICSI). In the ICSI process, a tiny needle, called a micropipette, is used to inject a single sperm into the center of the egg. After James grew for 5 days into a Blastocyst, he was then frozen for a whole year just waiting for the day he was chosen by the embryologist for implantation! Below is an example of the IVF process and how it's normal to lose anywhere between 35-60% at each stage in the process.  Mom & Dad's IVF Journey in 2019 19 eggs retrieved 12 matu...